Children's Courtesy Books

The Goops

The Goops they lick their fingers,
And the Goops they lick their knives;
They spill their broth on the tablecloth--
Oh, they lead disgusting lives!
The Goops they talk while eating,
And loud and fast they chew;
And that is why I'm glad that I
Am not a Goop--are you?

"The Goops" by Gelett Burgess
from The Goops and How To Be Them (1900)






Courtesy or conduct books aim to teach children and teenagers to behave in ways that uphold a particular system of values. The collection of materials chosen here shows a changing portrait of how young people have been expected to behave and how expectations of behavior have changed over time. One can also reflect on how gender specific and culture specific these expectations are. The books included in the selective bibliography below were written by American and British authors.

To explore courtesy books at the University of Washington Libraries try using the following subject headings in the library catalog: Etiquette for Children and Teenagers, Conduct of Life, Courtesy, Girls Conduct of Life, Boys Conduct of Life

The Library Resource Page on Children's and Young Adult Literature has several useful links to resources for research in this area.

Selective Bibliography of Courtesy Books available in the University of Washington Libraries.