Historical Brief-Lives of Women in the early 1800s
Daily life for women in the early 1800s in Britain was that of
many obligations and few choices. Some even compare the conditions
of women in this time to a form of slavery. Women were completely
controlled by the men in their lives. First, by their fathers, brothers
and male relatives and finally by their husbands. Their sole purpose
in life is to find a husband, reproduce and then spend the rest of their
lives serving him. If a woman were to decide to remain single, she
would be ridiculed and pitied by the community.
When a women was married, all of her inheritance (if any existed)
would belong to her husband. Her husband had rights to everything
a woman had, including her body. This notion was supported by both
the law as well as the marriage vows: “written into the marriage ceremony
was a vow to obey her husband…Not until the late 20th century did women
obtain the right to omit that promise from their wedding vows” (Taylor,
online). Marriage for these women was a lifetime commitment. Very
rarely were women allowed to have a divorce and until 1891 if a woman attempted
to flee an unhappy marriage, she could be captured by the law and punished.
Women were broken up into three different classes: Women of the
upper-working class, women of the lower-working class, and the underclass
women. The divisions of the classes were very distinct, and although
none of the women in any of the classes had much power, there were differences
in the daily life, family life and working life. The worst off of
all of the women were the underclass women. These women maintained
a very different lifestyle than the others. Their clothes often consisted
of dirty and torn skirts and blouses, and messy hair. Deprived of
any form of education and respected jobs, these underprivelged women mostly
relied on relief organizations and some even resorted to prostitution to
make a living for themselves when there was no other alternative.
The majority of the women belonged in the lower-working class
category. With little or no inheritance to look forward to, some
women began working between the ages of 8 and 12. Like the underclass
women, lower-working class women were often ridiculed by high society because
their lives did not permit them to dress with presige and class. Their
laborous work schedules did not allow for it. Some of the jobs that were
available to them were: domestic service, agricultural laborers, seamstress,
washer women, and serving the wealthy residents. Women in this category
were expected to fullfil three roles: “mother, housekeeper, and worker”
(Huysman, online). Such high expections made for a very high stress
environment for these women.
The most presitgious of the classes for British women to fall
under was upper-working class. These women were immediately distinguished
by their strict clothes that consisted of “laces, corsets, veils, and gloves
so that their bodies were properly covered” (Huysman, online). These
women often had some sort of inheritance passed down to them from their
fathers, so they were often courted by men of high standing who wished
to increase their own wealth. Even though women were not yet allowed
to attend college, these women sometimes received a general education consisting
of reading, writing, and arthmitic. In such cases, a woman might
decide to take a position as a governess or a lady’s companion.
Questions:
1. What class do you believe the Bennet’s fall under? Lower-working
class or Upper-working class?
2. Do you believe any of the Bennett girls have received any formal
education?
Bibliography
1. Women’s Status in Mid 19th Century England: A brief Overview. 16 Jan. 2002. http://members.tripod.co.uk/HastingsHistory/19/overview.htm
2. Huysman, AnnMarie. Women, Economic Instability, and Poverty
in London During the Nineteenth Century. 1998. 16 Jan 2002. http://www.fordham.edu/halsall/mod/huysman-london.html